We're not about airing your dirty laundry. We ARE committed to a sacred, supported way of being in hard relationships.
Do the work that WORKS.
It's tempting (and common) to outsource your sense of safety and worth to your husband - but he probably can't hold all that effectively all the time. WE can.
"What now?" not "Why me?"
Learning to ask effective questions changes the game when it comes to improving your marital connection AND getting more of what you really want.